A rusty backyard, dusty doorways, and messed-up bedrooms epitomized the ’90s kids’ lives. Their scattered studies and activities across the hall also played a significant role. Adoring grandparents were a big part of these memories. A slightly harsh and strict dad was also a familiar figure. There was always a loving mom, mischievous siblings, and cousins around. A few friends eagerly waited for a whistle to join in any mischievous activity. These are the true memories a ’90s kid carries throughout their life. Things were a little slower back then, and the patience level was high. Besides school, kids also had social lives in joint or extended families.
The kids often achieve a stellar performance in the school curriculum. This, mixed with a few extracurricular activities, consistently places them at the top of the social chatter. Gossip among relatives or neighbors is common. The population was sparse, so everyone knew everyone and what others were doing. The gossip circle discussed almost everything about a person and their family, including financial details and any quirks. The good-looking kids and the good students used to be the eyes of wannabe in-laws! Examples of grades, academic achievements, and sports accomplishments were broadcast to juniors and other relatives’ wards as important news.
The neighborhood was good enough for early censorship, and the aunties used their spying master skill effectively. But they are supportive most of the time. Learning to ride a bicycle or fly a kite, the neighborhood behaved like a family. At least the environment was safe for women or kids, except in a few instances. Social security among the middle class was higher, and the family’s morals were relatively intact. Not to disrespect today’s open culture, but the loyalty factor was still prevalent back then. The bonding between the kids was pure and quite intense.
The economy was rising. Fierce competition was underway between families and children over their financial status. Both were trying to predict a trend that was still unfolding. The rat race we see today among corporate employees and, more broadly, in social life, originated in the early 1990s. 90s kids pursued wealth to outdo their peers. They wanted to make their parents proud. This quest is what we inherited from the 90s. Eventually, 90s kids realize the rat race is worthless. They lose their zeal to outdo everybody. Everyone can relax and help others grow. We can cherish a good life. Good friends and a lovely family surround it.
But along life’s long way, two people always smile at you like kids. This happens no matter what mischief you do. You run away from your parents to avoid the beating or harsh words from your grandparents. They have seen life up close. They understand the importance of finding joy amidst the chaos of pursuing material, academic, or social success. Sometimes, you win, and many times, you lose. But you have to stay in the game. When you are most vulnerable, the kids become kids again. They surrender to the reassuring embrace of their grandpa or grandma.
A 90s kid at heart always remains one. Remembering the good old days is for you, 90s kid. They live in a shitty now. At the same time, they are optimistic about the future. The mental health term is discussed more now, but 90s kids neglected it. Nonetheless, the social upbringing helped 90s kids be tough outside of the harsh life of race while remaining vulnerable. That sums up the entire narrative of a ’90s kid’s social life.
The Witty Stride 